Becoming an authentic person with self-confidence behind the choices made. How can young people discover their authentic selves? How do they gain more self-confidence and how are choices made based on their own convictions? No bad influence from other people, environment and future obstacles. Using difficult situations from the past, reflection on past actions and bringing strength that was released in overcoming them back to the present. To remember a meaningful situation, the prototype is made with glass beads, where the beads are connected to the meaningful experience. For a moment of reflection, a ritual is followed and in case of a meaning ful action in the context of sports,. the boxing bandage is used to outline a clear goal and to prepare with concentration and to remeber all previous training. Obstacles are overcome and provide space to grow and develop. This way, a step is taken towards the authentic self.